Expert insights and practical tools for mental wellbeing.

Most people think of ADHD as being distracted, forgetful, or restless. What often gets overlooked is the hidden cost of living with ADHD every day. Many people call it the ADHD tax. The ADHD tax isn't a medical diagnosis. It's a term people use to describe the extra money, time, stress, and emotional energy that can disappear because of executive functioning challenges. If you've ever paid a late fee because you forgot a bill, bought something you already owned because you co

People in therapy often share with me that they keep comparing themselves to others in their lives and end up feeling 'less than'. Whether it's the friend who got into a prestigious program or job, the family that always looks happy in their vacation photos, or wanting to have a certain body like someone they follow on social media. We all have these thoughts from time to time. The problem is, we are comparing what we know about our own life to what we see of someone else's.

"I know what I should be doing. I just can't seem to do it." As a clinical psychologist, this is one of the most common things I hear from clients. Whether someone is struggling with ADHD, anxiety, depression, burnout, or simply feeling overwhelmed by life's demands, the frustration is often the same. They already know what would probably help. They know they should exercise more, get enough sleep, use a planner, spend less time on their phone, or finally tackle the project t

As a clinical psychologist, I've noticed something interesting. People rarely come to therapy saying, "I know I need to leave my relationship." Instead, they spend months, or sometimes years, talking about what's happening inside the relationship. They describe feeling lonely despite having a partner, walking on eggshells, or replaying arguments in their heads. They tell me they feel anxious, unheard, or emotionally exhausted. Then, almost in the same breath, they'll say, "Bu

Stress vs. Anxiety: What's the Difference? Feeling overwhelmed has become part of everyday life. Between work, school, parenting, relationships, finances, and the constant stream of emails and notifications, many people feel like they are always under pressure. As a clinical psychologist, one of the most common questions I hear is whether someone is experiencing stress or anxiety. The two are closely related and often feel similar, but they are not the same thing. Understandi

Have you ever received a short text message and immediately wondered if you had done something wrong? Or replayed a conversation over and over, analyzing every word you said because someone seemed "off"? Maybe a coworker walked past without saying hello, your friend took longer than usual to reply, or your partner sounded quieter than normal. Before you know it, your mind is trying to solve the mystery: "Are they mad at me?" Our brain for absolutely no reason: As a clinical p

If you're looking for mental health support, you may feel confused by all the different titles. Should you see a psychiatrist? A psychologist? A therapist? A social worker? The answer depends on what kind of help you are looking for. Some mental health professionals can prescribe medication. Some can diagnose mental health conditions. Some focus mainly on therapy. This guide explains the differences in simple terms. Quick Comparison Professional Can Provide Therapy? Can Diagn

If you've been thinking about starting therapy, one of the first questions you probably have is: "How much does therapy cost?" It's a fair question. Therapy is an investment in your mental health, but it's important to know what to expect before you book your first appointment. The short answer is that therapy in Toronto typically costs anywhere from about $150 to $300 per session, depending on the therapist's training, experience, and area of specialization. Let's break down

From the outside, everything looks fine.You meet deadlines. You show up for work. People describe you as responsible, organized, driven, and successful. Yet internally, you feel constantly tense, worried, and exhausted. This experience is often described as high-functioning anxiety. While high-functioning anxiety is not an official mental health diagnosis, it refers to people who appear successful on the outside while struggling with significant anxiety on the inside. In fact

For eligible First Nations and Inuit individuals, the Non-Insured Health Benefits (NIHB) Program provides coverage for mental health counselling with approved providers across Canada. Why Indigenous Mental Health Matters Many Indigenous individuals and communities continue to experience the impacts of colonization, systemic discrimination, intergenerational trauma, and the legacy of residential schools. While every person's story is unique, culturally safe and trauma-informed

You expected your 20s to feel more settled by now. Instead, things feel unclear. You might feel behind, overwhelmed, or disconnected, even if your life looks “fine” from the outside. This experience is often called a quarter-life crisis. It is more common than people think, and there is solid research explaining why it happens. What Is a Quarter-Life Crisis A quarter-life crisis refers to a period of uncertainty, stress, and identity questioning that often shows up between ag

If you’ve ever thought: “I know what I need to do… I just can’t start.” “Why is this so easy for other people?” “Why do I keep procrastinating?” This is a common experience, especially among thoughtful, high-functioning people. Motivation Is a System, Not a Trait From a Cognitive Behavioural Therapy perspective, behaviour is shaped by the interaction between thoughts, emotions, and actions. When motivation drops, it often reflects interference within that system: Thoughts: “I

Mental health language has quietly slipped into our everyday conversations, and honestly, no judgment if you’ve casually said things like “I’m so OCD” or “That’s triggering.” Who hasn’t? These terms are everywhere, from group chats to memes. But here’s the thing: when we use clinical mental health terms loosely, we can unintentionally minimize what others are truly going through and even make it harder to understand our own emotions. Let’s take a moment to check in on a few c